The heart of a Wife, Daughter, Mother.

I am writing this post, for the reader to know the pressure and responsibilities put on the Beautiful and Loving heart of a Wife, Daughter and Mother. something that should not go unnoticed in this world. The words of the woman. As a wife, she loves her husband so much, that she is almost a slave to that love. She will do anything for him, no matter what difficulties she must go through. all along patiently bearing hurt and fear, and uncertainity, but still it is the unconditional love for her husband that she bears all of that patiently. But who is there to really care for her, who is there to understand her?. who is there to share her burden. Oh that life puts its heavy hand on her. She bears all of it, and fights to uphold her husbands name and tries to cater his needs. Her husband cant understand it, since his needs and wants overshadow his mind from thinking for her. And she wouldnt share it with him, as she wouldnt want to dampen his spirits. As a daughter, She is the love of her parents. and they would do anything for her. After marriage, It is the heart of a daughter crying within when seeing her parents hurt because of her unavoidable demands from her for the sake of her husband. She need to hurt/trouble the ones she loves, for the sake of her husband whom she loves. Where and how can it be put in a balance, the love of a daughter and the love of a wife. testing it under such extremities, Imagine the struggle she would go through. Who would understand? Who?. It is a request to husbands, Please dont let your wife suffer like that. Dont ask/demand from her parents, please, cos you wont understand the emotional burden she has to go through. As a Mother, she loves her child very much. She would have high hopes and dreams for her child. And she would want to bring up her childern by herself. What is wrong in a monther, Loving her children, what is wrong in a mother if she wants to bring up her children by herself?. Please dont ever try to separate, Mom from her little child. It is a God given responsibility of a mother to care for her child. And only she can bring up her child in the best manner. It will hurt a mother's heart very much, when circumstances, and situation try to pull her away from her little child. Imagine a woman, going throgh all that mentioned above. Only God is her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Only he can understand the heart of a Daughter, wife, and Mother.

Gods hand at work

It is too sad to remember those days, the days when every day was tears, and every second was miserable, wished there were no weekends and all were working days . Out of all that God has rescued me now, I still remember the prayer i once did, God please dont take me back to the same misery, i cant handle it any longer. It is better for me not to live than to face the misery. Let me live if you will save me out of it all. And it was a miracle, Jesus Gave me a wonderful most pretty girl baby, and above all rescued me miraculously from the grip of misery and evil.

I always remember my journey like one that the Israelite s had. Even now I believe that God will answer my prayers.

Self Confidence & Faith in God

Suddenly I realised something after a long time. The importance of Self confidence, and faith in God

Following the same strategy

I wonder how people follow the same strategy to spoil others life. For a year, every day, people made my life so miserable, with just one tool. Back again yesterday they do the same way to kill my life.


No words can tell the misery that i face. I have God to fight on my behalf. Waiting on him alone....

Role of a wife

What is the role of a wife?

From my conscience i was everything to my husband, After marriage i always thought for him, lived for him and did everything what he would like. Life was nothing about me. I dont say it is bad, But it is bad when the husband took it all to his advantage.  

What for you ????????

Such a depressing statement, especially when you care for someone, and you get such a reply :(

when i recollect the past,