The heart of a Wife, Daughter, Mother.

I am writing this post, for the reader to know the pressure and responsibilities put on the Beautiful and Loving heart of a Wife, Daughter and Mother. something that should not go unnoticed in this world. The words of the woman. As a wife, she loves her husband so much, that she is almost a slave to that love. She will do anything for him, no matter what difficulties she must go through. all along patiently bearing hurt and fear, and uncertainity, but still it is the unconditional love for her husband that she bears all of that patiently. But who is there to really care for her, who is there to understand her?. who is there to share her burden. Oh that life puts its heavy hand on her. She bears all of it, and fights to uphold her husbands name and tries to cater his needs. Her husband cant understand it, since his needs and wants overshadow his mind from thinking for her. And she wouldnt share it with him, as she wouldnt want to dampen his spirits. As a daughter, She is the love of her parents. and they would do anything for her. After marriage, It is the heart of a daughter crying within when seeing her parents hurt because of her unavoidable demands from her for the sake of her husband. She need to hurt/trouble the ones she loves, for the sake of her husband whom she loves. Where and how can it be put in a balance, the love of a daughter and the love of a wife. testing it under such extremities, Imagine the struggle she would go through. Who would understand? Who?. It is a request to husbands, Please dont let your wife suffer like that. Dont ask/demand from her parents, please, cos you wont understand the emotional burden she has to go through. As a Mother, she loves her child very much. She would have high hopes and dreams for her child. And she would want to bring up her childern by herself. What is wrong in a monther, Loving her children, what is wrong in a mother if she wants to bring up her children by herself?. Please dont ever try to separate, Mom from her little child. It is a God given responsibility of a mother to care for her child. And only she can bring up her child in the best manner. It will hurt a mother's heart very much, when circumstances, and situation try to pull her away from her little child. Imagine a woman, going throgh all that mentioned above. Only God is her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Only he can understand the heart of a Daughter, wife, and Mother.

Gods hand at work

It is too sad to remember those days, the days when every day was tears, and every second was miserable, wished there were no weekends and all were working days . Out of all that God has rescued me now, I still remember the prayer i once did, God please dont take me back to the same misery, i cant handle it any longer. It is better for me not to live than to face the misery. Let me live if you will save me out of it all. And it was a miracle, Jesus Gave me a wonderful most pretty girl baby, and above all rescued me miraculously from the grip of misery and evil.

I always remember my journey like one that the Israelite s had. Even now I believe that God will answer my prayers.

Self Confidence & Faith in God

Suddenly I realised something after a long time. The importance of Self confidence, and faith in God

Role of a wife

What is the role of a wife?

From my conscience i was everything to my husband, After marriage i always thought for him, lived for him and did everything what he would like. Life was nothing about me. I dont say it is bad, But it is bad when the husband took it all to his advantage.  

What for you ????????

Such a depressing statement, especially when you care for someone, and you get such a reply :(

when i recollect the past, 

Broken - A new business model for Non Profit Organisations

Troubled life
Troubled job
Struggling with society
Ill perceived by everyone
Broken dreams
Ill treated by parents
unsuccessful endeavors
God even does not care

Poor soul i would say, destined to die. Cursed perhaps.

I feel there should be a social service targeted to address these sensitive problems faced by many individuals. Not only to address but should provide for such people. Now that is what i would call as a true non profit commitment.

The art of being narrative

Everyone needs to be narrative when it comes to public speaking or when publishing a piece of work. It is of course important as to whom you are. But when it is not conveyed in the right way, it is hard to benefit the reader/spectator in the way you intend to.
There are various aspects about business narrative. Some of which I have recently identified.
                   
1. The reader should be engaged. For eg, the script should be phrased in a more story like backdrop, if possible in a more gripping way all action packed. To be more effective, the beginning (introduction) of an article or a conversation should be more engaging and should bring in the audience attention.

2. Strike a chord in the readers/spectators heart. Narrate a small piece of instance which will subtly project you in an appealing way, these small unspecific details will invariably influence the subconscious mind of the listener.

3. Be candid with what you say.

4. Depending on the kind of audience, the script has to be carefully targeted. For instance, if your audience are all top notch business people. You need to convey them your abilities and success in an unsaid manner. The best way is to quote examples.
But if your audience want to know who you are, then you need to pour in some details highlighting your inward self, also with examples. No one would buy a story for what you say you are. But by believing in what you say you did.

5. Have a comprehensive, yet a compelling conclusion. So that it ever since lingers in the mind of the reader and gives you an advantage.

6. Improve on your writing skills, the best way is to read as many articles, narratives, or books. pick up new words. Appreciate a sentence for its elegance and sink in the sentence formation.
Above all, write, write and write a lot. This will help to a great extent.

                                                                                     -  M. Grace Nithia